Home (Safe) for the Holidays
As we’re now in the heat (no reverse pun intended) of the Holiday season, I wanted to take an opportunity to share some last-minute Holiday tips as you’re out at the malls and headed to those parties…including New Year’s.  Feel free to share these with friends, family and co-workers to make sure everyone plays it safe out there:
- Be aware of your surroundings, coming from and going to your car. Most criminals are opportunists. They are looking for people not looking for them. Don’t be on your cell phone, texting, looking for your keys or even car and literally “scan” your path as you walk it. Make sure you know where you parked and how to get back. If you have any hesitancy as to the distance or lighting, call security or ask for an escort at your party. Remember, criminals are not “ninja.” They do not appear out of nowhere, but they do appear out of places you’re not looking.
- Be very careful offering assistance to those you don’t know. “Assistance” is probably the most-common tactic employed by those trying to lure you. And it doesn’t have to be a “man” asking for help to set you up. Women have been used, teens have been used, older people have been used, etc. During this time of year especially, most of us want to go out of our way to be helpful. Unfortunately, criminals know this too. Just be keenly aware of any vulnerable areas where you are giving or receiving assistance. Also, know your limits. If you’re not a locksmith, a mechanic, a doctor or nurse, your greatest assistance may simply be calling upon others to lend that helping hand.
- When at parties, WATCH THOSE DRINKS! Most are now familiar with drugs being slipped into their drinks when not watching. Those are not “urban myths,” I assure you!  Even if you think you know “most everyone” at the party…do you know “everyone?” If that open glass is out of your sight for more than a few, quick seconds, find another drink. If someone brings you an uncapped bottled beverage, go and get your own. Again, this tip is not just for the “ladies” either. It’s not always about sex, sometimes people are just stupid, thinking they are giving someone a “pick-me-up” at the party to have a better time. Be careful on this one!
- BREATHE!!! Yes, it is hectic at this time of year. But don’t let your frustration and aggitations get you in trouble. If that person ahead of you didn’t see the light turn green as quickly as you did behind him or her, give them a few seconds before hitting the horn. If in line at the cash register, realize there are not only others in front of you, but behind you. Point being, everyone wants to be on their way, not just you. Be patient. If cut off in traffic, give the person the benefit of the doubt that they simply did not see you vs trying to “run you off the road” (which is rarely the case). Whether it is by counting to ten, the way our parents taught us, or whatever other relaxation technique helps you…BREATHE!
These are just a few, quick strategies, obviously there are more. But the Holidays are supposed to be a time of friends and family, so the best advice is to surround yourself with those you know and trust. And keep “everything” in moderation to keep yourself safe in other areas as well (wink, wink).
I hope you all have a great break, wherever your travels find you. And my hope is that you are Home (Safe) for the Holidays!
Jeff McKissack